Twenty - six ways to love and nurture your child today and every day

The ABC's of Christians Effective Parenting
Affirm
your child every day as a gift of god. No matter what yesterday’s problem were

Build
Upon your child’s talent, seeking to discover Gods plan for him

Communicate
With your child in a way to glorifies Christ, always asking before speaking
“ would I say this to a friend? ”

Dedicate
Yourself to the body of Christ through communication to the congregation, regular worship, bible study, prayer and service

Exercise
Self control when your angry , committing your feelings to the lord rather than using them against your child

Give
Your child everything she needs instead of everything she wants, even if you have to say no sometimes

Hug
Your child ten times each day, especially when she’s unlovable. A warm touch can erase even the most strained relationship.

Include
Bible study and prayer in your daily family routine and challenge your child to do the same in her personal life.

Join
In agreement with your spouse and stand firm together on rules, expectations and discipline.

Keep
Commitments you make outside your home so your child can observe you modeling responsibility.

Live
Each day to the fullest, appreciating the beauty of god’s world and the hope of your faith instead of hurrying through the day.

Manage-
Aspects your child’s life that could lead to stress such as too much activity, television or appropriate freedoms

NURTURE
Your child lovingly so he can experience God through your example

Open
Doors of opportunity to your child as you encourage the development of her/his skills through education

Patiently
Wait upon the lord as the answers prayers for you and your child.

Question
The reasons for your child unacceptable behavior as you look beyond the act to its root causes.

Respect-
Your child as an individual rather than plan as an extension of you or your spouse

Strive
To create quality time with your child each day that enables you to listen to her joys, hopes, concern and fears.

Trust
God to guide as you prayerfully make daily parenting decisions

Ultimately
Trust your child as he leaves home, knowing you’ve fulfilled your commitment to god as a Christian parent.

Verbalize
Your thoughts and feelings when you’re happy or sad, letting your child know that you’re still approachable.

Wait
Patiently for your child at school, at home and at play, while also extending grace for human frailty

Yield
To the lord was as you seek his guidance each day

Zealously
Start each day in praise, marveling at God’s work in the life of your family.

aako

me&meliz@CLR

Blueberry Cheesecake

Ingredients
2 cups graham cracker crumbs
1/2 cup walnuts, finely chopped
1/2 tsp ground cinnamon
1/2 cuo butter,melted
2 1/2 cup cream cheese softened
1 cup sugar
2 tsps. vanila
1/2 tsp. almond extract
3 eggs
3 cups sour cream
1/4 tsp. salt
preserve blueberry , in a can, for garnish

TO PREPARE THE CRUST:
> combine the walnuts,cinnamon and graham cracker crumbs. Add the melted butter. Reserve 1/2 of the mixture for the top. Press the rest on the bottom and sides of an 8-inch springform pan.

> using a mixer, beat the cream cheese, sugar,vanilla, almond extract , and salt until the mixture become smooth.Add the eggs slowly and while beating at a lower pace.

TO PREPARE THE CHEESECAKE:
> Place the mixture in the crust and top with the reserved crumbs. Bake in an oven at 375 'F for atleast an hour. Cool on wire rack. chill for 5 hours.
> Garnish with Blueberry on top before serving

Spaghetti Carbonara

Ingredients:
1 pack spaghetti
1/4 kilo Bacon
3/4 cup cheeze , grated
3 eggs, slightly beaten
1 tsp. pepper

Procedure ;

1. cook spaghetti according to package instruction
2. Fry bacon until crisp, crumble then set aside. Reserve some of the bacon fat.
3. Place the beaten eggs in a bowl.Add the cheeze and the white wine.Mix well.
4. pour egg mixture over the hot spaghetti. Season with pepper and bacon fat.Mix the hot spaghetti to cook the egg mixture
5. Garnish with crumble bacon.

My Favorite Background

Word of words...

Simple "Ice cream"

Things to be Prepared :

Handy Electric Mixer, medium Bowl , measuring glass , and ice cream molder

Ingredients ;

2 pack or 750 ml All purpose cream
1 can or 300 ml Condense milk
2tbsp Vanilla or any flavor u like
2 pack Oreo Chocolate cookies [pulvorized}

Procedure ;

In a medium bowl place the 750 ml all purpose cream and mixed up with ur electric mixer to the speed of # 3, then gradually add the condense milk, then the vanilla or any flavor you like, then when it becomes more pluffy add the pulvorized oreo cookies...then bring it to the sides .pour it into the ice cream molder and placed it in a freezer....

Note: Overnight freezing is better before eating..!

P.S......." A Davao City style Ice cream.."
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